WE ARE WHAT WE *SEE*

In physics the term observer effect refers to changes that the act of observation will make on the phenomenon being observed. One of the most bizarre premises of quantum theory, which has long fascinated philosophers and physicists alike, states that

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$1.99 eBOOKLETS

Most of Dr. Meadors’ eBooks have been transmuted into smaller eBOOKLETS. Helpful feedback from consumers over the past year suggested that in the busy-ness of most people’s lives, they don’t have the luxury to set time aside for extended reading.

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WELCOME

“Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start.” ~ Nido Qubein ~ Life Focus, Inc. offers assistance in making your present more enjoyable, as well as inciting positive anticipation for a fulfilling and rewarding future. These are

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CAROL A. MEADORS, M.A., LPC

Purpose Statement: “To be a person of expanding God awareness while assisting others in their process of self-actualization and well-being.” ~ Carol is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC-1454) and certified Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) specialist (EMDR Institute), with an

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RAYMOND MEADORS, Ph.D., PSY

Purpose Statement:  To inspire and motivate my audience to live their dreams in the context of faith and hope. Without dreams, life is dreadful; without faith and hope, desperation is surely not far away. Dr. Raymond E. Meadors is a

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IF YOU AREN’T NARCISSISTIC, THEN ARE YOU HUBRISTIC?

“Everyone is a moon and has a dark side which he never shows to anybody.” ~ Mark Twain ~ HUBRIS: [hoo-bris]. Hubris (adjective form is hubristic) means excessive and overbearing pride; presumption; arrogance. It is also an excess of ambition,

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TRIBUTE TO A SWEET, SWEET FRIEND

Often the funeral service is a time of mourning because of obscure or disputable conditions surrounding the life of the deceased. For others, the service is a time of joy and jubilation because of the exemplary life lived by the

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MOVING BEYOND THE TRIVIAL AND MUNDANE IN COUPLES’ COMUNICATION

Information communication is often confused with personal communication. In a marriage you’ve got to hear each other. And I don’t mean hear the sounds of each other’s words. You’ve got to be able to hear the silence between the sounds

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IS IT SUPERIORITY or INSECURITY?

Superiority complex is a psychological defense mechanism in which a person’s feelings of superiority counter or conceal his or her feelings of inferiority.Rachel and Jerry have been married for three years, and to this point, it has been a nightmare

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ANALYSIS PARALYSIS in MARRIAGE

Your marriage situation may be problematic and then, again, maybe it’s not. Perhaps the problem isn’t overly complicated, but rather you’re guilty of analysis overkill—thus, the title of this BLOG—Analysis Paralysis. Men are particularly guilty of analysis satiation (to supply

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WE ARE WHAT WE THINK!

Every thought has a frequency that can be measured—thinking a thought over and over emits at that frequency. Thoughts send out magnetic signals that draw parallel back to the sender of the thoughts. The larger a thought grows, the more power it

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PERCEPTUAL DIFFERENCES: The Eyes Have It!

IF YOU COULD ONLY SEE THE WORLD THROUGH MY EYES . . . Carol and I recently settled in the great room for a time of relaxation and reflection. Spontaneously, we peered at a distant wide-framed window as the sun beamed

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AMBIVALENCE: “I Hate You, but I Love You, Too!”

AMBIVALENCE: The coexistence within an individual of positive and negative feelings toward the same person, simultaneously drawing him or her in opposite directions. ~ Uncertainty or fluctuation, especially when caused by inability to make a choice or by a simultaneous

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